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  1. This is so true! Nobody cares but I wish I felt I had nothing to prove and would just invite that friend over even if the house is a mess! In all honesty I think it’s more that I’m trying to prove to myself that I can be the lady/mom whose house is always spotless, kids always have planned activities, and always cooks a homemade meal (yes I have a friend like this!). But because I’m not actually that person I don’t normally have anyone over unless I’ve had plenty of time to prepare my home for them to be impressed by how clean and organized it is.

  2. At 70 I am still learning and practicing this concept. The most exciting times in my life were when I took the risk to not worry about what others think. And still, I tidy up before someone comes over. What is going on in my head? Haha, I am listening to my mom in my head. How can it be that I am still worried about what she is (would be) thinking if she were alive. Interesting eh…trying to please a person or prevent the criticism of someone who is not alive is crazy! Not too old to learn. Excellent post, Kristin.

  3. Haha! This is great! I am full of imperfect moments so I guess I’ve got a good head start. And I don’t mind laughing at myself over it! 😉

  4. I think I learned most is to be authentic and genuine. I was one of those vlub dancers that was always worried about what others thought and I think it still happens now. I think I miss out on things bc I’m so worried what others might think. Need to work on that!!

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